TAFSIR

عوذ بالله من شيطان رجيم
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
إن الحمد لله نعمده ونستغفره واستهده واستعنوبه واشهدُ أن لاإله الا الله واحده لا شريك له،له الملك،وله الحمد وهو على كل شيء قدر...
واشهد أن سيدنا وحببنا ومولنا وقرة أعيوننا محمد عبدالله ورسول الله صلى الله على محمد وعلى اله واصحبه وسلم
"As-salamu alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu"
،،،، The existing protocol is what I'm standing on... Even though Abu-Ubaydah hasn't create any protocol yet. ‪#‎smiles‬...
Today's lecture is on Tafsir of the word of the owner of all that exist.. He is there when there's nothing, He's
there when there's something and He'll be there when anything seize to exist again Ya Allah!
Nahm! Allah says:
وان كنتم في ريب مما نزلنا علي عبدنا فاتوا بسورة من مثله وادعوا شهداءكم من دون الله ان كنتم صدقين
And if ye are in doubt as to what We have revealed from time to time to Our servant, then produce a Sura like thereunto; and call your witnesses or helpers (If there are any) besides Allah, if your (doubts) are true.
2-Baqara : 23
In this verse Allah(s.w.t) is challenging the whole being on earth; professors, doctors, philosophers and everyone that if any one is in doubt of what we have revealed to Muhammad salallahu alayhi wasalam which is the Qur'an then
*fahtu bisurati min mislihi* just a verse like unto it you should bring ... then Allah said in the preceding verse that :
فان لم تفعلوا ولن تفعلوا فاتقوا النار التي وقودها الناس والحجارة اعدت للكفرين
But if ye cannot- and of a surety ye cannot- then fear the Fire whose fuel is men and stones,- which is prepared for those who reject Faith.
2-Baqara : 24
We are going to explain just one verse of the holy Qur'an and the verse is in Suratul Baqarah where Allah says :
"Allah! There is no god but He,-the Living, the Self-subsisting, Eternal. No slumber can seize Him nor sleep. His are all things in the heavens and on earth. Who is there can intercede in His presence except as He permitteth? He knoweth what (appeareth to His creatures as) before or after or behind them. Nor shall they compass aught of His knowledge except as He willeth. His Throne doth extend over the heavens and the earth, and He feeleth no fatigue in guarding and preserving them for He is the Most High, the Supreme (in glory)."
2-Baqara : 255
How beautiful are the words of our Lord!
The 1st sentence is *Allahu LA ilaha ila uwa-l-ayu l-qoyum* I.e Allahu the creator of everything, *LA ilaha Ila huwa* there's no God except him *Al-hayu-l-qoyum* the everliving the eternal and the 9th sentence is Wa uwa al-aliyu -l-azeem that "Wauwa"" and Allah is the most high the supreme!
The second sentence is:
Latakhusuhu sinatu wala naom I.e Al-sina means doziness and Naom means sleep
What causes doziness ??? It's sometimes or mostly caused by tiredness like when someone is given a task of guarding something, One tends to get tired which will cause doziness that will later lead to laying down (sleeping).
So Allah says Latakhusuhu sinatu wala naom that No slumber(doziness) or sleep can seize him.
Then the 7th sentence that has relation with the 2nd is *Wala yahuduhu ifsuhuma* I.e guarding the Heaven and the Earth doesn't gives him fatigue Subhanallah!!!
The 3rd sentence is *Lahu maa fi samawati wamaa fil-Ard* that His is what is in the Heaven and Earth!
And the 7th sentence is *wasiha kursiyuhu samawati wal'ard* I.e His kurisiyu I.e throne extends over the heaven and earth!
I'll like to stop here cos I've used lot of our time but I'll like to state one prophetic sunnah which is the reason why I chose this verse for my tafsir tonight.
The prophet said *mon qoraha ayatu-l-kursiyu duburu kulu solati l maktubah lam yemnahuhu an yedhula l Jannah ila l maot* that no one will recite this verse we've been trying to tell each other its greatness (Ayatu l kursiyu) immediately After the obligatory prayers, nothing will be stopping him 4rm entering Jannah except Death!

Ikhwaty fillah
Take up this perfect sunnah of the prophet of reciting Ayatu l kursiyu after every solat !
هذ وسبحنك اللهم وبحمدك أشهد أن لا اله الا الله أستغغرك واتوبو ٱليك
May Allah grant Us Goodness and Count us among the blessed ones, it's really a pleasure talking here tonight may Allah count it among our good deeds.
Wasalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu

Speaker : Muhammad Nasir

THE CONCEPT OF REPENTANCE AND FORGIVENESS

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Presents : THE CONCEPT OF REPENTANCE AND FORGIVENESS

Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,

Respectable Brothers and Sisters in Islam, tonight we're going to discuss extensively one part of the Hadith of our Noble prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him).
The Hadith is a qudsi Hadith and it has several parts and it discusses many concept but we're going to look into the part that says:
The Hadith was reported by Abu Dharr Al-Ghifaari and the Hadith could be found in Sahih Muslim but for Easier refference we can Check Imam Nawawi's Arba'eena Hadith, it's the 24th Hadith.
"....0 My servants, you sin by night and by day, and I forgive all sins. Therefore, seek forgiveness from Me and I will forgive you..."

This part of the Hadith is talking about the concept of Istighfar (Seeking Forgiveness)
All humans are prone to commit sins. However, what distinguishes some sinners from others is the admission of committing the sin, the feeling that it was wrong and the want to ask Allah for forgiveness. This was made clear by the Prophet (peace be upon him) when he said,
"All humans are sinners. And the best sinners are those who repent much." (Abu-Dawud)
Allah has blessed us in many ways, some he has given wealth, riches, offsprings and some he chooses not to give. But as human beings we tend to do things that are in appropriate sometimes and when those things are done, the best thing we can ever do is to seek forgiveness from Allah.
However, Allah makes it clear that no one should ever despair of Allah's mercy and forgiveness. The door to repentance and forgiveness is always open as long as the person is still alive and the pangs of death have not reached him. Allah says :

Say: 0 My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by committing sins], despair not of the Mercy of Allah. Verily, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful" (al-Zumar 53).
Shaykh Bn Uthaymeen (May Allah be pleased with him ) said:
seeking forgiveness is not simply a matter of a person saying, "O Allah, forgive me." Instead, it must be accompanied by a sincere repentance.
And according to Shaykh Uthaymeen there are five conditions in order for an act of repentance to be sound. They are :-
1-The act of repentance must be done solely for the sake of Allah and with sincere intention
2-The person must feel remorse for the sins he has committed. Prophet was reported to have said "Remorse is the through essensce of repentance" (Imam Ahmad)
3-The repenting person must stop committing sins and must never go back to the sins earlier committed.
Allah says regarding those who repent :
"And those who when they have committed illegal sexual intercourse or wronged themselves with evil remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sins-and none can forgive sins except Allah--and do not persist in what [wrong] they have done, while they know" (ali-Imraan 135).
4-The person must be determined not to go back to the sin again even if he had the opportunity of going back to it. He must restrain himself from the sin totally
5- Repentance must be made before it is too late not until the pangs of death are about to reach him. Allah says :

And of no effect is the repentance of those who continue to do evil deeds until death faces one of them and he says, 'Now, I repent,' nor for those who die while they are unbelievers. For them We have prepared a painful torment" (alNisaa 18).
Every sinner should turn back to Allah in Repentance, instead of feeling despair we should remember that the door of Allah is always open and he will grant us Mercy and Forgiveness. We have a good example from Nabiyyuna Adam (Alayhi Salam) he sinned against Allah and he turn immediately for Forgiveness, he repented and Allah grant him Forgiveness. Allah says :

Thus did Adam disobey his Lord, so he went astray. Then his Lord chose him, and turned to him with forgiveness, and gave him guidance" (Taha 121-122).
Oh! My respectable brothers and sisters in the Deen, I call you with the word of Allah which says :

ففروا الي الله اني لكم منه نذير مبين
Hasten ye then (at once) to Allah: I am from Him a Warner to you, clear and open!
51-Dhariyat : 50
Let us have it in mind that no matter how much we've faulted, we should ever remember that Allah is ever ready to show Mercy, let us make tonight as our turning points, let's turn back to Allah before it is too late And Allah will grant us Forgiveness..
I'll end my speech by relating what happened in the time of Imam Ahmad Bn Hanbal
A man came to Imam Ahmad Bn Hanbal with the following verses of poem:

اذا ما قال لي ربي أما استحييت تعصيني#و تخفى الذنب عن خلقى وبالعصيان تاتيني
If My Lord asks me 'Have you shyness in disobeying me?
You conceal your sins from my creation and with sins you come to me
فكيف اجيب يا ويحى ومن ذا سوف يحمني#أسلى النفس بالأمال منحين الى حين
So how will I answer? O 'woe to me and who shall protect me?
I keep averting my soul with thoughts of hope from time to time
وانسى ما وراء الموت ماذا بعد تكفيني#كأنى قد ضمنت العيش ليس الموت ياتيني
And I forget what is to come after I'm shrouded
As if I am guaranteed life (eternally) and that death will not come to me.

The poem is a bit long but this is just an extract,Imam Ahmad broke into tears after listening to the man..
May Allah in his Infinite Mercy grant us Goodness, May He forgive our shortcomings and May he accept our acts of worship.
If All this are found useful it is from Allah and His messenger but if otherwise it is from my own self and shaytaan.
Wasalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.

SPEAKER : SHEHU ABDUS-SALAM ALADODO (ABU-UBAYDAH)

THE STORY OF BARSISA

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Presents: The story of Barsisa

In the name of Allah the most beneficent most merciful.
The story I'm about to share tonight is a story that brings tears to my eyes whenever I remember it.
The story is about a man named BARSISA (A true worshipper) of Allah and how he fell into the trap of Shaytaan (The accursed)
Allah the Almighty says in His Glorious Qur'an: {(Their allies deceived them) like Shaitan (Satan), when he says to man: "Disbelieve in Allah." But when (man) disbelieves in Allah, Shaitan (Satan) says: "I am free of you, I fear Allah, the Lord of the `Alamin (mankind, jinn and all that exists)!" So the end of both will be that they will be in the Fire, abiding therein. Such is the recompense of the Zalimun (i.e. polytheists, wrongdoers, disbelievers in Allah and in His Oneness)}. (Al-Hashr, 16, 17)

Abdullah bn Mas'ud was reported to have narrated the story and it goes thus:

Once upon a time, there was a man known as Barsisa, he was a sincere and true worshipper (as a monk) and everyone knew he was pious.
In that same community, there are three brothers they had one sister and one day they planned on travelling for the Course of Allah (Jihad)leaving their sister behind.
And they thought to themselves, who else can we tell to look after our sister except Barsisa cos he's so pious and he will be able to look after her, they approach Barsisa and he rejected their offer.
They left then Shaytaan came to Barsisa and said "Why can't you look after a little girl, you are pious but if you leave the girl alone and anything happens to her, Allah will make you responsible for it" Barsisa thought of this and accepted to look after the lady.
This was the first trick of Shaitan.
He kept the lady in a separate room and went away to his place of worship, He will cook for her but the lady had to work from her place to where Barsisa is and pick up the food. Shaitan saw this and he said to Barsisa;
"DON'T you think you're disturbing this lady, she's coming all the way from her own separate room what if on her way coming someone sees her, anything may happen and you will be responsible for it. You're a pious man, just take the food to her in her room"
Barsisa thought of this and he started leaving the food at the lady's doorstep. Meaning that he's getting closer, he will put the food down then knock and before the lady comes out he will disappear (look at the degree of his piousness).
Shaitan saw this and said "Barsisa you're this close to entering her room, don't you think she will be lonely? Just enter and talk to her you are a pious man nothing will happen" Barsisa thought of this and the next time, he entered her room. They began taking , they talked alot and it became wild and this pious servant (Barsisa) ended up commiting Zina with the lady 😥😥😥😥

Subhanallah!! See the trick of shaitaan
The lady became pregnant and gave birth. Barsisa was disturbed and didn't know what to do. Shaitan came to him and said "Barsisa, what do you think the brothers will do to you knowing that you impregnated their sister? Get rid of the child and thy won't know anything about the incident". Barsisa took the child from her mother and he got rid of the child..

See what shaitan pushed him to " Zina then Murder"
Let's continue...
Shaitan came to Barsisa again and said "Barsisa, you've killed a child of an innocent mother, do you think she will keep quiet? You should act fast if you don't want her to reveal your secret" Barsisa asked "what should I do" Shaitan said "it's simple just get rid of the mother too".. Subhanallah. Barsisa went on and got rid of the mother also making it Double murder
The brothers came back from their trip and asked about their sister, Barsisa replied that she died as a result of an illness and he took them to a grave he claimed he buried her in. The brothers accepted their faith and went back home.
Thereupon, Satan visited her four brothers in a dream while they were asleep and said to them: Barsisa committed adultery with your sister, and because she got pregnant, he killed her and buried her in such-and-such location. In the morning, one of them said: "By Allah! Last night I dreamt of something and I do not know whether to relate it to you or just keep it to myself?" They said: Relate it to us. He did so and one of them said: By Allah! I saw the same dream. Another said the same. And the fourth one said the same thing. They agreed on that there must be something serious about that dream.

They all went to Barsisa and asked him about the issue, he narrated how it happened to them and they were so disturbed..

They went to the king and appealed for his help against Barsisa. The king's troops came to arrest him and he was taken away. On the way, Satan came to Barsisa in form of a man(and whispered in his ears): I set you up. No one else can save you from this. Prostrate yourself before me just for once and in return, I will save you from this. Thereupon, Barsisa prostrated himself before Satan. When they presented themselves before the king, Satan said to him: I am free of you! Finally, Barsisa was killed.
Subhanallah!! See how he was deceived by Shaiitan, firstly he committed Zina then he moved on to Murder and He committed the greatest sins of All which is Shirk (associating partner with Allah)
Respectable brothers and Sisters, don't think because you think you are pious, shaitan won't get to you. It happened to Yusuf (alayhi salam) but Allah protected him. Let's seek the help of Allah against Shaitan (The devil, the accursed)
May Allah open our doors, may He grant us Jannah without reckoning and May He forgive our shortcomings.

Wassalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.

SPEAKER : SHEHU ABDUS-SALAM ALADODO
(ABU-UBAYDAH).

THE STRANGER

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Presents: THE STRANGER

Bismillahi Rahmani Raheem
الحمد لله و الصلاة و السلام على رسول الله و على آله و أصحابه و سلم ومن إهتدى بهداه و بعد رب إشرح لي صدري ويسر لي أمري واهلل عقدة من لساني يفقه قولي Salam alaikum
warahmatullah wabarakatuhu.
In sha Allah I will be explaining a hadith of the prophet
This hadith is found in Sahih Bukhari number 6416 and also is the 40th in the compilation or collections of Imam Abu Zakariyya yahya Ibn Sharaf An-Nawawi. The hadith goes thus: On the authority of 'Abdullaah bin 'Umar radiAllaahu anhu, who said : The Messenger of Allaah (sallAllaahu alayhi wa sallam) took me by the shoulder and said :

Be in this world as though you were a stranger or a wayfarer.

It was related by al-Bukhaaree.

excerpt from 40 hadiths of imam An-Nawawi
In other narrations Abdullah Ibn Umar said: "If you see the evening do not expect to see the morning and if you see the morning do not expect to see the evening, And take from your health for your sickness and from your life for your death"
(Reported by Imam Bukhari)
The hadith starts with an advice or as an exhortation that :Be in this world as thought you were a stranger or a Wayfarer.
First who is a stranger and who is a wayfarer?
A stranger is someone who is new to a community and does not know anything about his place of stay. While a wayfarer is someone who is always on a journey he does not stay at all. According to Sheikh Uthaymeen رحمه الله we should be in this world as though we are new in it. We should know that even if we are a king in our own corner we should know that we are here to leave one day.
As a wayfarer this means we should see ourselves as a person who is always on a journey.
This journey is not they journey from kano to Italy.
It means a journey from Allah to Allah.
If we want to be here(Dunya) as a garib and 'abir sabil.
We have to be conscious of your stay.
Do not oppress,
Do not cheat,
Do not kill,
Deal with each other with righteousness.
Because we all will account for everything we have done as a wayfarer or a stranger.
Then Ibn Umar added that:
إذا أمسيت فلا تنتظر الصباح و إذا أصبحت فلا تنتظر المساء
و خذ من صحتك لمرضك ومن حياتك لموتك
If we see this statement we will think its a hadith of the prophet و لكنه ليس الحديث.
If you see the evening we should not expect to see the morning.
We should do whatever we want to do as soon as possible without said later or I'll do it tomorrow as no one has a free ticket to see tomorrow
No one is guaranteed the grace of seeing tomorrow
So we should do whatever we want to do without procrastination As Allah said :
Surah Al-Kahf, Verse 23:
وَلَا تَقُولَنَّ لِشَيْءٍ إِنِّي فَاعِلٌ ذَٰلِكَ غَدًا

And never say of anything, "I shall do such and such thing tomorrow."

Surah Al-Kahf, Verse 24:
إِلَّا أَن يَشَاءَ اللَّهُ وَاذْكُر رَّبَّكَ إِذَا نَسِيتَ وَقُلْ عَسَىٰ أَن يَهْدِيَنِ رَبِّي لِأَقْرَبَ مِنْ هَٰذَا رَشَدًا

Except (with the saying), "If Allah will!" And remember your Lord when you forget and say: "It may be that my Lord guides me unto a nearer way of truth than this."

Finally, we should take from our health for our sickness.
This is one of the five things the prophet said we should take note of before we loose them.
We we are healthy we will be very active so we should make the most of it by doing acts of worship that will increase us in piety and elevate us in the presence of Allah.
We should also make the most of our life before we die.
We should do righteous deeds that will help us in our grave and the hereafter.
Wa salam alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu,
Subhanakallahumma Wa bi hamdik Wa ash-hadu an la ilaha illa anta astagfiruka Wa atuubu ilaik.

Speaker : Balogun AbdulBasit Umar
(Ibn Umar)

ADULTERY AND FORNICATION

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Presents: Adultery and Fornication (Al-zina)

إن الحمد لله، نعمده و نسعنه و نستغفره. و أشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له وأن محمد عبده ورسوله.
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته
In sha Allah, I shall be treating Al-Zina (Adultery & fornication)
As we all know in our society today that it has become very rampant that even there is no limit to the age
What is Zina?
Zina means sexual intercourse between a man and a woman not married to each other.
It's immaterial whether one or both parties have their own spouses living or are unmarried
It's also immaterial whether it's with the consent of the parties.
The word Zina applies to both Adultery (whether one or both parties are married to a person or persons other than the persons involved in the sexual intercourse) and fornication where both parties are unmarried
Islam considers Zina not only as a great sin but also a an act which opens the gate for many other shameful acts, which destroys the very basis of the family, which leads to quarrels and murderers, which ruins reputation and property and which spreads numerous diseases, both physical and spiritual.
Therefore, the Holy Qur'an enjoins upon people:
ولاتقربوا الزنى إنه كان فاحشة و ساء سبيلاً
"do not come nearer to Adultery for it's a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evil)"
The Prophet (S. A. W) has declared Zina to be the greatest sin after Shirk (associating partner with Allah SWT). He says:
"There is no sin after Shirk greater in the eyes of Allah than a drop of semen which a man places in the womb which is not lawful for him"
There is another Hadith which places Zina next after Shirk and the killing of one's child for fear of poetry. It says
Pls permit me to the translation of Hadith only
Sahih Bukhari (Limits and Punishments set by Allah (Hudood) - 41)

Narrated `Abdullah bin Mas`ud, I said, "O Allah's Messenger (pbuh)! Which is the biggest sin?" He said, "To set up rivals to Allah by worshipping others though He alone has created you." I asked, "What is next?" He said, "To kill your child lest it should share your food." I asked, "What is next?" He said, "To commit illegal sexual intercourse with the wife of your neighbor.
There are some other ahadith in which murder is considered to be the greater sin as compared to Zina
Be that as it may, Zina is undoubtedly a very great sin.
If it's allowed to go unchecked it may disrupt the social fabric of Ummah.
For this, severe punishment is reserved for this major crime in the penal law of Islam and great torments for adulterers in the hereafter
The Prophet S.A.W is reported as saying that the dwellers of hell will have the punishment of smelling the most pungent smell emanating from the private parts of an adulterer. Subhanallahi!
He is further reported to have said that if a person commits Zina, Allah emerge scorpions and snakes to trouble him until the day of Resurrection.
Let's stay far away from it.
Islam abhors Zina and for that end enjoins upon Muslims to keep away from all those satanic things which lead a man to Adultery.
The first step towards Adultery is provided by having a passionate look at an unknown woman.
This is prohibited by the Prophet S.A.W in following Hadith:
النظر إلى النساء الاجنبيات من الكبائر
"Even to look at an unknown woman (with a passionate look) is also a sin"
Other steps towards Adultery are prohibited by the Prophet S.A.W in another Hadith
Sahih Muslim (The Book of Destiny - 33)

Narrated , Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger (pbuh) as saying. Allah fixed the very portion of adultery which a man will indulge in. There would be no escape from it. The adultery of the eye is the lustful look and the adultery of the ears is listening to voluptuous (song or talk) and the adultery of the tongue is licentious speech and the adultery of the hand is the lustful grip (embrace) and the adultery of the feet is to walk (to the place) where he intends to commit adultery and the heart yearns and desires which he may or may not put into effect.
I will stop here tonight.
In sha Allah will continue from "the punishment of Zina" next week.
May Allah SWT come to aid so that we can abstain from it
It's not easy but Allah's mercy it's very easy.
May He SWT saves us from the punishment of the grave, from the fitna of live and death, And from the punishment of the torments of hell fire.
Subhanaka Allahumma wabi amdikh ashadu an lailaha anta Astaghfiruka wa atubu ilayhi.
Assalaamu alaykum Warahmatullaahi Wabarkaatuh

Speaker : Abdullah Ibn Oloyin
(Heal D World)
Channel: Dream Da'wah Network

MARRIAGE AND SINGLE COUNSELLING

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Presents :- Marriage Counseling and Single Counselling.

All praises is due to Allah,may His blessings be showered on the noble prophet, his households,his companions and the generality of the ummah till the end of time.
I seek refuge in Allah from the accursed(shaytan). In the name of Allah, the most gracious, the most merciful.
I start with khutbatul hajjah( d sermon of need) of the prophet with which he usually start his speech( innalhamda lillah.......)
Ammaa ba'ad (as to what follows) As salamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakahtuhu.

I have been tasked with the responsibility of delivering lecture on marriage counseling/single counselling and in sha Allah ta ala,I will try as much as possible to deliver it to the best of my ability...😊😊 never mind.
Allah says in the Glorious Qur'an : " and we have created everything in pairs that perhaps you may remember"(adh- dharriyat)
Growing past childhood and becoming man and wife with someone is the most pertinent step any human can take in the interest of their own happiness and well-being as it's a very important sayings of the noble being(prophet) such that whoever exempts himself from this sunnah is deemed to have fallen out of the fold of Islam.
However, like everything on earth, there are sacrifices and prices to pay in marriage.The way to handle the various phases of marriage is the most important part
The rates at which couples divorce these days is quite alarming,I have heard of a man that wants divorce at all cost,you wanna know the reason? Oh yes I will tell u,this Abu wants divorce because he don't like the way his hajia squeeze toothpaste,A vacous! If I may say My fellow sisters may be we will have to enroll in toothpaste squeezing school😂😂😂but truly,it's not funny as this is one of the numerous reasons for divorce these days and 21st century and all that.
Allah says :
"And among Allah's sign is this; that he created for you,spouses from among yourselves, so that you might find rest in them and he has set between you,love and compassion- truly there are signs in this for those who reflect(Ar room 21)
Allah, in that verse,promises that the love between spouses is from HIM,and as such,you should regard it as a sacred thing and not allow the trials of the marital life to Mar the beautiful life that Allah has planned for you.
As couples 👫 💞 allow your differences to be resolved amicably, never allow the intervention of a third party, give room for mistakes and readily forgive, control your tongue as it can wreck more havoc than you can ever imagine. think for two as you are one that has two sides now 💍
Marriage is such an important step that the prophet spoke of it as being half of the Deen; whoever has married has complete half of his religion;there of let him fear Allah in the other half.
The completion of one's Deen has lots of components, which the most important is TAQWA(fear of Allah). You have to have the fear of Allah rooted in you.
Trust between both parties is important as doubt breed fear,each time I see a marriage with low level of trust,it makes me think for them 🤔 what are they now promoting? Some hatred of course! For how possible is it for a mouth to yarn and speaks at the same time??
control your temper and take the advice of the prophet 'do not be angry' .
My fellow brother who acts as if they are jagaban . Akhi,being the amir of your house is not just about being the commander or inspector general of your crib,make sure you always pray tahajjud with your spouse.
Strive to make your love 💞 stronger 💪for its love that which makes marriage,not a soppy sentimental kind of romantic dream but the sort of love which will roll up its sleeves and get stuck into the mess. The sort of love (khadijah and the prophet) which will hang up to you when everyone else has turned against you or spoken ill of you,while you are sure of the kind of confidence reposed in you by your partner ( who knows yo better than any one else ) and will never spring to your defense
We can say it on and on but I will like to stop here.
Till next week we meet in sha Allah, With this I say : Whatever that constitutes right from what I have written above is from Allah while those that has wrongs in it,is from shaytan and me and Allah and his prophet are there of free from it
I beseech Allah to grant us someone who will be the garment of our soul,the one who will complete half our Deen and in doing so make us whole.
And as for the Abus and Ummus in the room,may He make your spouse the coolness of your eyes and grant you a lots of goodness and benefits in it.
Subhanakal lahumma wabihamdika Ashadu anla ilaha ila anta Astaghfiruka wa atoobu ilayk.
Wasalamu Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu....

Speaker : Amori Lateefah Oluwashikemi (Dream)

MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT POLYGAMY

DREAM DA'WAH NETWORK

PRESENTS : MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT POLYGAMY

Assalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakahtuhu
Respectable Brothers in the Deen,
It is not wrong for you to have the aim of marrying more than two wives when u get ripe for marriage. It is something Allah has made halal maa shaa Allah. So no man has an excuse of doing zina because wallahi Our Maker understands our nature cos He created us such I mean The males, we are such that our heart can get attracted to many things without loosing value of the other
The aspect of justice, even Allah said we can never be just justice is to Allah we humans(males) can only try to be just (sincere trial).
Sheikh Ibn bazz said the principle is polygamy, Cos Allah started with mathna.
It is a western idea imposed on us( me and my husband Not we and our husband). Just for us to loose our islamic culture and it has brought a lot of crisis to this ummah how many sisters are left unmarried.
As at around 2007 if am not mistaken the ratio of women to men was 3:1
Who will marry the 2 ratio left?
And the thinking of some sisters is just that Ii suffered with my husband and a lady wants to come and enjoy, thinking this way is absolutely wrong.
Allah gives rizq to whosoever He wants,Permit me to share a real life experience
then try reason with it.
There was a woman whose husband happened to be a friend to my dad's friend,
So he was the one that narrated the story to me.
So this woman used to say; I'd rather kill my husband and myself than for him to marry another wife Subhanallah!! And this man had the intention of marrying another wife so after hearing this serious threat he stopped.
Barely a year later this man died and the woman was still in her prime, Out of love for her husband she said no man would ever lay on top her again.
After few months she went to meet this friend of my dad and told him that she is now feeling the need to get laid with and she doesn't want to commit zina therefore (the husband's friends) should help her out.
So they held a meeting among themselves on who to take her in as a second wife and they came to a conclusion.
Now the first. wife of the man that was chosen refused just like the woman refused when her husband wanted another wife, So she thenen went to my dad's friend and she said : "I am being judged by my previous deeds, I refused to allow my husband to take in a second wife and now other women are refusing me too"
At the end this woman did not accept and the widow later married a Christian subhanallah! and her late husband had a masjid outside his house and wallahi after she married this Christian they turned our masjid into a motel where people come and engage in impermissible things.

Our Sisters should just open their mind to this, I am not here to promote or demote polygamy but when it happens lets not us be negative about it wallahi and brothers please learn how to treat our sisters lovely, because wallahi the way some brothers run their polygamous house makes some sister act otherwise. We are not saying there would be no problem at all there would be infact problems are meant to be and that is the essence of jannah. So let the brothers and sisters prepare our minds and actions.
May Allah grant us the coolness of our eyes and Reward us with Jannah.
Wasalamu alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu.

Speaker : Abolude Abdullah (Abu-Suffyan)

FASTING ON THE TENTH OF MUHARRAM

DREAM DA'WAH NETWORK PRESENTS :

OBSERVING FAST ON THE DAY OF 'ASHURA
(Tenth of Muharram)

Assalamu alaykum warahmatullah wabarakatuhu.
In the name of Allah the most beneficent, the most merciful.
Respectable Brothers and Sisters as we all know we are in the holy month of Muharram, a month which is termed as a sacred month in which we should increase our acts of worship in.
Among the days of Muharram, the Tenth day is known to be a fasting day although we can fast in other days also but the tenth day is somehow special and this is in evidence with the following hadith "Narrated by Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) he said: When the prophet came to Al-Madinah and saw the Jews fasting on the day of Ashura', he asked them about that and they replied "This is a good day, the day in which Allah rescued Bani Israel from their enemy. So Prophet Musa observed fasting on this day. The Prophet said "We have more claim over Moses (Musa) than you" So, the prophet observed fast on that day and ordered the Muslims to observe fast on that day (Al-Bukhari)

In another narration of the mother of the faithful (Aisha) she said "Later when the fasting of the month of Ramadan was prescribed, the prophet gave up fasting on the day of Ashurah and it became optional for one to observe Fast on it or to leave its saum (fast). (Al-Bukhari)

Both Narrations are of the view that we can fast on the tenth of Muharram but it shouldn't be made compulsory because the prophet later gave up on it when Ramadan was prescribed which made it optional.
In about 3 days time we shall be in the Tenth of Muharram. Kindly endure to fast if you are privileged to do so, may Allah accept our acts of Worship.
We use this medium to remember our brothers and Sisters in the Syrian crisis, May Allah grant them happiness of the Soul and May he count them among the righteous ones.
Wasalamu alaykum warahmatullah wabarokatuhu.

Speaker : Shehu Abdus-Salam Aladodo
(Abu-Ubaydah).